It is good to be a pleasing presence in the lives of others. Kindness, friendliness, and servitude are qualities worthy of your efforts. As is the case with so many good things, it is possible to have too much of a good thing. To get an idea if your people pleasing tendencies may get imbalanced, look over the sections to the left and look at the book "People Pleasers". You might learn that it is possible to be both pleasing and firm at the same time.